One of the things that concerned me about my sweetheart when we first met was how fickle he was. He was often likely to change his mind and this lack of constancy and stability confused me. I though that once a person made up their mind there was really no room for change. Why change?
For me stability was a positive trait. It meant to me that the person is reliable and predictable. Don’t we all pursue stability in our lives? We want stable relationships. We wants stable jobs. We want for things in our life to be reliable so that we feel stable and secure.
A friend of mine is getting married this summer. Through a wonderful synchronicity of events I offered to make her a pearl necklace and earrings for her to wear on her wedding day.